The pincer grasp — thumb and index finger working together — is one of the most important developmental milestones in the first three years. DUPLO builds it without trying.
Somewhere between 9 and 12 months, most children discover they can pick things up with just two fingers. Not a fist. Not a palm. Two fingers: thumb and index, working in opposition.
This is the pincer grasp, and it is one of the most consequential motor milestones in early childhood — not because it means your child can pick up small objects, but because of what that precision grip becomes.
The same muscle groups used to pinch-and-place a DUPLO stud are the ones a child will later use to hold a pencil. Occupational therapists call this in-hand manipulation — the ability to move an object within the hand once it's been grasped.
Children who lack strong in-hand manipulation often struggle with pencil grip in their early school years, not because they haven't practised writing, but because the foundational muscle control was never developed.
Brick play is one of the most effective and age-appropriate ways to build it, because:
9–12 months: Raking grasp begins to refine into a crude pincer. Can pick up small, lightweight objects. DUPLO is ideal — large enough to be safe, small enough to require grip.
12–18 months: Pincer grasp stabilises. Children can connect and disconnect DUPLO bricks with increasing reliability. Stack height increases.
18–24 months: Begin to see bimanual coordination — using both hands in different roles. One hand holds, the other places. This is a major step: it requires each hemisphere of the brain to manage a separate task.
24–36 months: Children can position bricks with deliberate intent — not just stacking vertically, but connecting side-by-side, beginning to plan simple shapes.
If a child consistently uses a full-fist grip on bricks past 18 months, or avoids tasks that require precision placement, mention it to your paediatrician. It may be typical variation, or it may be worth a referral to an occupational therapist for an early assessment.
Peel stickers together. Sticker play and brick play use the same grip. Alternating between them keeps the activity fresh.
Offer single bricks, not piles. Handing your child one brick at a time slows the task down and forces more deliberate grip on each placement.
Build towers, then knock them apart. Separation requires as much fine motor engagement as stacking. The "knock down" phase earns its keep.
By the time your child reaches preschool, years of brick play will have done quiet, structural work on their hands. The teacher who comments that your child holds a pencil "well" is noticing the outcome of hundreds of hours of grip training that looked, to everyone involved, like play.